PSIKOLOGI PERNIKAHAN DALAM ISLAM UNTUK MEMBANGUN KELUARGA HARMONIS
Abstract
Every individual definitely wants to have a harmonious and happy family, where each family member respects each other. But in reality, in a household, individuals in the family often face a lot of conflict, starting from physical family conflict, lack of mental readiness, or conflict over psychosocial issues that exist for each individual family member. This research examines the Psychology of Marriage in Islam to Build a Harmonious Family. This research is library research, collecting data through documentation methods, namely collecting scientific works and journals related to titles, with an analysis method, namely content analysis. The results are that psychological readiness is very important for couples facing marriage. harmony in a harmonious and quality family household, namely a family that is harmonious, happy, orderly, disciplined, respects each other, full of forgiveness, helps each other in good manners, has a good work ethic, neighbors with mutual respect, obedient to worship, filial piety to elders, loves science and uses free time in positive ways and is able to fulfill the basics of the family, from the perspective of marriage psychology. Psychological readiness is very important for couples to prepare for marriage. Marital adjustment refers to the integrity of the couple with two different personalities combined in the marriage bond. Increasing the quality of marriage. The satisfaction of wives and husbands can be seen from the relationship they have in dividing roles and resolving conflicts. It not only has an impact on unhappiness, but also on the mental health of each individual.
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